Who is good, people - bad? " Psychological installation



Who is good, people - bad? " Psychological installation In the modern version of psychoanalysis - transactional analysis, divided into four main human relations set to themselves and others, which then determine our attitudes and behavior. The man "is" on their life as a knight - the emblem on a shield, or as neformal - drawing on a T-shirt.

Here they are:

1. I'm bad - you're good.
2. I'm bad - you're bad.
3. I'm good - you bad.
4. I'm good - you're good.

On the second and third year of life a child chooses one of the three basic settings and begins to build in conformity with their life script. This envy of the presence or absence of affection and approval from the neighbors. So, more detail:

1. I'm bad - you're good.
The oldest plant, in fact without the influence of human hands the baby simply will not survive, but many of the facts of his own discomfort impression of themselves as disadvantaged. Such a man all his life can feel at the mercy of others, experiencing a constant need for approval. He ugodliv, they can be easily manipulated. His own view is in its infancy. Sufficient sense of personal well-being, even if a person has achieved so much. In the end - a sad conclusion: "Whatever I did - I'm still not perfect."

2. I'm bad - you're bad.
This is when the child does not receive or receives little caresses, stroking, approvals, and the punishment is no shortage. The function of collecting strokes (as in the first case) is blocked, because they have nowhere to wait. At best, people just adrift of life, turning into a cynic and a fatalist. At worst - it becomes asocial and antisocial, confessing only destructive values. Example - drug addicts, criminals, adherents ugly sects 1,111,115. . Many are mentally ill. They do not know happiness and do not believe in him.

3. I'm good - you bad.
This is - almost criminal attitudes, an attempt to heal the wounds inflicted during childhood (up to 1,111,114. Child Abuse
). Left alone, the child himself "licking" them without help. When it turns out - there is a sense of personal well-being and comfort. But when there are parents or other sources of violence - a child comes to the conclusion that all around - bad.

Growing up, he gives the date and even attacked first. He is a cunning, brutal and cruel. Objects of violence of such a person - usually a younger, weak. Often the abuse of animals. Yet such an ugly set serves as a means of saving lives. Stroking a good thing if it is good giver, but good people there's no ... extreme expression of this installation - deliberate murder, or the way the leader of the antisocial, criminal factions.

4. I'm good - you're good.
This setting, unlike the others - a conscious and verbal processing. This - a consequence of the inclusion of rights in those processes which lead to different sections of human knowledge: philosophy, pedagogy, psychology, psychotherapy. That is it - to set an adult, mature, harmonious personality, able to give "pats" and others, and themselves.

 
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